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10 evening, mentor - Central China Normal University, Associate Professor Peng Xiaohui invited to lecture at Nanjing Normal University made a lecture entitled "Sex and Interpersonal Communication". 17:50, there are 10 minutes away from the lecture began, the reporter went to Nanjing Normal School Campus Xianlin are building 401 classrooms, which can accommodate 250 people packed the classroom, and even the aisles are crowded with students. Lecture, Professor Peng edgy sexuality thrown multiple perspectives, several challenging traditional concepts bottom line. And his "sexual encounter women should take the initiative and handed condoms," this view, it is when the Church provoked a strong rebuttal boys, both sides fierce "battle of the tongue."

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"In the face of sexual assault, the timely handed condoms, and that is to protect women from HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases, the last barrier."

PK

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Faced with sexual assault, promptly handed him a condom

Boys refute site: Description acquiesced sexual assault behavior

In reply to a girl on the "male virgin," the question, Peng Xiaohui pointed out that sex high probability of high school students in Sweden, there are many mothers will prepare condoms in adolescent daughter. "There is one aspect of the reason is that, when faced with sexual assault, timely handed him a condom, it is the last barrier to protect women from HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases." This statement Peng Xiaohui statement immediately attracted to the scene in an uproar.

One was wearing a black sleeveless lanky guy stood up and questioned: "?? In China, we handed out how to define this behavior does not go out if delivery is to explain the girl acquiesced in such behavior."

Peng Xiaohui smile asked: "? What do you think this case how to do it."

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However, this boy is still persistent, "Yes. You see us around the nation, such as South Korea, women carry a silver makeup knife, in the event of such a situation would be to die Competing and criminals."

Peng Xiaohui said, "A survey showed that 40% of women born hymen incomplete or invisible, in this regard, the male does not have any physiological indicators to determine, which resulted in an objective inequality,http://rhdigi.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=228917, I think up to now have this idea is wrong. "

This boy is still persistent rebuttal said: "You say that the situation is true that there are, but a lot of women in the face of sexual assault, the subconscious is going to resist."

After several encounters, Peng Xiaohui said, "The idea that boys I can understand that. I agree with the practice of the Swedish mother, not disguised endorse sexual assault, but to encourage women to achieve self-protection."

"Our country men than women out of almost 30 million, many men can not find a wife, right now there are about 30 million gay men,moncler outlet, so that their marriage is legalized, it can solve the problems of this part of the population."

PK

"But you're not taking into lesbian issues. If gay marriage is legalized, will be married lesbian population sex ratio imbalance,scarpe nike air max, the man could not find his wife's situation still exists ah."

Allow same-sex marriage, can save 400 million people happy

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On the slide showed a gay wedding photos: "According to the survey, a national population is 3% to 5% of the population is gay, we have to define homosexuality is not a disease in medicine, but in many countries, gay marriage yet . legalization "Professor Peng spot for everyone to calculations:" According to China's sixth census, China's population is now 1.339 billion, according to the ratio of at least 40 million homosexuals do not legalize gay marriage,piumini peuterey, then. This is 40 million people would have to get married and heterosexual, so both spouses in marriage is definitely strange bedfellows, it becomes a 80 million people are not happy, then that 40 million households each birth to a child,woolrich prezzi, and is 40 million ... ... "Professor Peng if not finished, the audience of students already are waves exclaimed:"!! so terrible 120 million people. "

"It's not yet finished, 40 million households, both husband and wife have two elderly people, as well as their relatives and friends will be implicated. So doing,scarpe hogan,http://tukipie.net/audiobook/index.cgi, a couple, three generations ...... there is a third of the country's population Not happy,louboutin outlet, "Professor Peng also proposed appropriate solutions they think:" Our country is not there more men than women in question do more than women and men almost out of 30 million, many men can not find a wife, right now? There are about 30 million gay men, so that their marriage is legalized,woolrich prezzi, it can solve the problems of this part of the population. "

Carter, the audience will have a girl Professor Xiang Peng pointed out: "There are so many gay men are right,http://bbs520.3vjia.cn/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=287350, but you're not taking into account the issue of lesbian if gay marriage is legalized,woolrich sito ufficiale, will be married lesbian population of men and women. the ratio imbalance, man can not find his wife's situation still exists ah. "In this regard, Professor Peng said he only provides a possible solution ideas.

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Universities should set up a dedicated ground kissing

Shortly after the lecture began, Professor Peng presented to you on a research data: more than half of college students have been or are in love. "Once, I walked on campus, seen on the mountain trails school students after a pair of intimate behavior, rather abruptly called face to face - the two men are my students, three people I feel very embarrassed,peuterey outlet, I had tilted her head to go. "said Professor Peng will head torsional side, attracted the audience of classmates laugh. "We have to discuss this issue,http://www.tsv-trostberg-handball.de, since the data show that there are so many college students fall in love, why not give them a 'kiss of place' it?"

For this reason, in the lecture Professor Peng suggested that college student activity center can open up some space specially arranged to train hard seat shape, creating a semi-enclosed space, students can bring their own coffee lovers, candles. This semi-open space that meets the needs of the students contacted the couple, but also to avoid unnecessary embarrassment, teachers and parents will not be offensive.

Restrain the "bottom line" that they breakup

"And her boyfriend talked about a year and a half, and he proposed several times to be intimate contact, I'm embarrassed, I do not agree, premarital sex, but always refused to be afraid of losing him, how to do it?" A girl to speak out the hearts of confusion, which is a lot of girls in trouble.

Faced with the girls are most concerned about "how to avoid premarital sex" issue, Professor Peng gives love to follow when the "five steps": "First,nike tn requin, when the boys to show you, do not rush into a relationship, have a probationary period, so that both sides have the time to understand each other. Second, if deemed appropriate, when establishing the relationship must pledge, and your boyfriend clearly values his life and where the line is, ask for respect for themselves. Third, love the process inevitably will be some intimate behavior, feeling unable to control when to cleverly evade, from two of the world. Fourth, we have to remember that you have the right to say no,louboutin homme pas cher, to stick to their principles of life. The final step, 'when the break is breakin', if your boyfriend pushed to the bottom line, you have to doubt their own choice, if such a thing is worth doing, and talk to him once seriously. If he still insists, we should boldly. break up. "

After some explanation above, Peng Xiaohui not forget to explain, "I met a lot of female students are undesirable premarital sex, but that does not mean I'm doing premarital chastity education." Peng Xiaohui to "give my husband the most good dowry is their virginity "point of view does not agree:" This is not respect for women, and even oppression,giubbotti woolrich, exploitation of women thought that everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, and now the women have financially independent. next, you can fully assume their own lives, the premarital happen is completely understandable. "

The best times of love "Shibuguosan"

"We really love to feel or to the future? If you love do not want to talk much to talk about, or marriage tired of each other how to do?" A boy Professor Xiang Peng put forward their own confusion. In this regard, Professor Peng suggest that you "saw the re-start": "Everyone has the right to choose, I suggest that you abide by a 'moral right', that is 'not hurt' principle in order to experience and if you are in love. Perhaps the old will find what memorable things in life do not. we should try to reduce the number of love, best 'Shibuguosan'. If the purpose of marriage is more than three times the love you do not succeed, only shows You are not mature enough,http://club.85383838.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=/home.php,giubbotti moncler, that is, we usually say 'not grown up'. "

"I have a friend,tn pas cher, and her boyfriend have been in a relationship. But then her boyfriend bad for her,piumini moncler, she wanted to break up, but every time the thought of his first time to the people,hollister sale, and not afraid to be no one to follow him. She now how to do? "interactive sessions, a girl Professor Xiang Peng made such a problem. "Then she must own cross this threshold, a little bearish on this matter. If you insist, and now her boyfriend together, we must consider that he is not a worthy person entrusted to life. Only when feelings now,peuterey prezzi, not in the past, the girls must To understand this point. "Peng Xiaohui stressed.

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Master Peng Lulu sexuality being a teacher job interview

2008, Peng Lulu admitted to Central China Normal University, "Human Sexuality" Master, became the master since the 2000 founding of the third recruit graduate students. Over the past three years, hoping to when a sex education teacher Peng Lulu is about to graduate. Because of their profession, "rare", Peng Lulu job experience by including this newspaper, several media "explore", the momentary fame, even alerted authorities in Nanjing. Eager to help her to contact a number of media institutions, however, have indicated that the other side does not need such professional talent Peng Lulu. For Disciples Peng Lulu, Peng Xiaohui is "entangled." "Sexology graduate students to find related work is not difficult, but Peng Lulu bent when sexuality education teacher, so have not been able to do so." Peng Xiaohui told reporters that in 2000 he officially won the "Human Sexuality" research The Shuodao qualifications before Lulu Peng, Peng Xiaohui door disciple of the Ministry of Health after graduating first AIDS Foundation, and then served as a project officer in the British AIDS Foundation, Zhengzhou, Nanjing recently transferred there to enrich management team; second graduate student not graduated abroad. He told reporters Peng Lulu's current situation, "Peng Lulu is interviewing for a job,parajumpers jakke, is associated with the teacher, but to disclose the specific circumstances,bracciali tiffany, because can not be fixed."

Graduate decade sexuality only recruited five

"Not on" Introduction of science "classes, it means in the China division had not read the book." Phrase is very popular in the China division of the word, we can see that the popularity of this course by college students. Peng Xiaohui told reporters, while 19 years ago, when "sex Introduction to Science" just opened, many students are also facing pressure concept. The first class, student enrollment is about four or five people,http://www.pornotoplist.info/cgi-bin/toplist/in.cgi, and then also to the students did a privately ideological work yet. The second semester, there are eight elective ninety, from the third semester has been full, and now many students feel that the course chosen is hit the jackpot. From the beginning to now, back and forth a total of more than 18,000 students enrolled in the course.

In 2000, Peng Xiaohui official has a "human sexuality" research direction Shuodao qualifications, but because there is no corresponding degree point, it can only be anchored in the yard, "zoology" degree point. Two years later, Peng Xiaohui first official recruit graduate students. "Swap not and will not come close!" This is the principle Peng Xiaohui recruit disciples. Ten years, he recruited a total of only five students, he believes, to learn the profession must be voluntary and is due to interest.

Currently sex education "in short supply" situation let Peng Xiaohui quite worried: "I have six years of education alone can not retire some of the professionals who are interested in this direction based on.." Population and Family Planning Law "Chapter II the provisions of Article XIII, the preparation of teachers in the school setting, the implementation of sex education. "Peng Xiaohui can look forward to the Ministry of Education recognized sexuality as an independent discipline exists. "Peng Lulu bent on doing sex education because teachers can not do so, but also the country's sex research is not enough." Sexuality is currently the clear direction to recruit only three graduate and doctoral students, except me, that is Professor Li Yinhe and the Chinese People's Institute of Sociology, University of director Professor Pan Suiming. Domestic sexology study in the strict sense, no. "