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YORK, September 24 hearing, according to the National Federation statistics of family violence on the rise, in 2011, the 270 million Chinese households, about 81 million households there are different levels of domestic violence, about 100,000 households thus disintegrated. Kochi increase in the number of perpetrators salaries, increased cold violence against his wife beat her husband's frequent, become domestic violence by showing the new features. Recently, this reporter visited Harbin multiple police stations, hospitals and other departments marriage, marriage behind Yinzhong understand domestic violence.

The reason is mainly divided into three categories of domestic violence

According to the October 21, 2011 National Women's third major Chinese women's social status survey data show that the province has 20.4% of women in marriage had suffered various forms of domestic violence. Made it clear that the spouse had been beaten up by 2.8%. Reporters visited the Public Security Bureau of Civil hang, river cypress, Kangan and other police learned that the average police station received a week can play both spouses due to family dispute of security cases, amounted to nearly a year since. According to the police station, deputy director of the CAS solution Dayong introduced domestic violence order cases they accept into three categories: first, because of their family disputes remarried parents, children,woolrich sito ufficiale, and property problems; second, spouses party has bad habits or derailment; third, perpetrators have varying degrees of mental illness.

"Domestic violence is not only physical harm to the victim, the more of a psychological impact." Hospital of Harbin marriage counselors Xu Lei speaking, victims embarrassed to seek help, the more painful and more, suffering varying degrees of mental illness. This not only ruined the lives of domestic violence victims, leaving their children in love and marriage concept, character, ways of doing things are subject to serious adverse effects.

Kochi is also home to high-paying hands

According to Xu Lei, in recent years, a number of high social status, well-educated people who have become family "tyrant," a member.

Li (pseudonym) and Zhang Fang (a pseudonym) is a university student, Li graduated from an ordinary family after a soldier, Zhang Fang family superior in government service. Zhang Fang parents financed, buy two get married. Demobilized, Li be reused, social status and economic capacity rapid expansion, Zhang Fang maiden patronize a lot of things. After a hard spine, Li's attitude towards his wife becomes tougher. Initially, his wife's opposition party entertainment, then he did not even have the necessary social gatherings banned, if the wife out of the phone is slow, or there is no "record" whereabouts, home after his wife kicked. Only in Li's eyes, he lived a single, they asked his wife is also true. In addition, the men outside, women inside thinking ingrained in his mind, once his position "emancipated" will "sanctions" wife.

New means of economic sanctions against domestic violence

According to Xu Lei speaking, in addition to abuse assault "corporal punishment", economic control, cold violence, restriction of personal freedom, are all manifestations of domestic violence.

Wu Li (pseudonym) is a woman, her husband may Song Bin (a pseudonym) was commonplace. Eight years of marriage, his wife looks outstanding entertainment and more, more money, she became a household with the child protagonist, being cynical Song Bin gradually been marginalized. The couple often one week can not say a word. Faced with his wife's pride and strong, Song Bin relative resistance to almost zero with the reticent and married life. It is understood that the cold violence often appear in the "female Weak Men" unequal economic status or family households.

Implementation of domestic violence are more than just men, the proportion of "shrew" also increased. Deng married less than three months (a pseudonym) came to talk covered with scars, his family was well off his wife Zhao (a pseudonym) pampered childhood, her parents responsive. The reason for his wife's hands very "simple" because he failed to timely satisfy her travel, shopping requirements. As a result, intensified, as long as not fulfilled, she hands, and even take the "economic sanctions", Deng even eat no money to buy cigarettes. Deng filed for divorce, but Zhao ask price "breakup fee." Somewhat spoiled childhood, so Zhao who own the center, in front of parents and elders had shamelessly roll, face generational equality husband, she began to use "force" to meet the wishes.

For the first time do not tolerate violence

How to face and solve domestic violence?

Xu Lei teacher said, first of all, when the marriage of the first occurrence of domestic violence when the victim should not be condoned easily let go, according to the case show that after the first time it comes with the domestic violence, the frequency and intensity of violence in the future will be intensified. The injured party should take the initiative to declare the two sides held a family meeting friends perpetrators of "crimes", and timely communication of views with violent side, and pledge. Secondly, in serious cases, victims should call the police, medical clearance, save domestic violence "evidence" in order to take legal action in the future. Once again, not again silent patience, to speak out domestic violence, while recourse to the Women's Federation, community, counseling and other departments to seek professional psychological counseling and legal assistance.